Can I Get My Ex Back?
Assess your chances and emotional state to make the right decision
About this test
After a breakup, the question 'can I get my ex back?' is one of the most frequent and most painful. This 30-question test does not give you a binary answer, but helps you objectively analyze four essential dimensions: your deep motivations (why do you really want to go back?), the actual quality of your former relationship (beyond nostalgia), your current emotional state (are you in a position to make a good decision?) and the signals observed from your ex. The results will offer you a clear-eyed view of your situation to make the healthiest decision for yourself.
Dimensions assessed
- ●Deep Motivations- Analysis of your real reasons for wanting to go back: genuine love, fear of loneliness, habit, or need for validation.
- ●Quality of the Former Relationship- Objective evaluation of what your relationship actually offered: mutual respect, communication, fulfillment, or dysfunctions.
- ●Current Emotional State- Your ability to make a clear-headed decision: are you guided by reason or overwhelmed by emotion?
- ●Signals from Your Ex- Evaluation of perceived signs from your ex-partner: openness to dialogue, distance, ambiguity, or definitive closure.
3 comments on this test
Mon ex m'a quittée il y a 3 mois. Le test m'a aidée à prendre du recul. Le rapport est honnête : il m'a montré que certains signaux étaient positifs mais que je devais d'abord travailler sur moi.
Ma copine m'a quitté il y a 2 mois. Le rapport est d'une honnêteté rare. Il ne vend pas du rêve, il analyse la situation objectivement. Dans mon cas, les signaux sont plutôt négatifs et le rapport m'aide à accepter et avancer.
Le rapport analyse les raisons de la rupture avec une objectivité que je n'arrivais pas à avoir seule. Les « erreurs à éviter » m'ont empêchée de faire des bêtises. Précieux.
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