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Am I Romantic or Passionate in Love? — Quiz
63 questions·10 min·5 dimensions and a separate readiness-to-change module·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
Reviewed by Gildas Garrec, CBT practitioner
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This test looks at your love style: tenderness and duration, or intensity and combustion. It examines several aspects: how much room emotional intensity takes up, the need for stability and predictability, the way love is expressed, and the rhythm that suits you. The report describes each of these aspects.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 63 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book The Practical CBT Guide, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Am I Romantic or Passionate in Love? — Quiz — a 63-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at your love style: the room emotional intensity takes up, the need for stability, how love is expressed, the rhythm that suits you. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): an interpretation of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This interactive test covers attachment, mood, desire, conflict, trust, commitments, anxiety, autonomy, speaking up, tenderness, how others see you, time, loneliness, separation and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example Attachment If, when everything is calm, you wonder whether love is still really there. If the depth of a bond moves you more than its intensity. Mood If you feel fully alive when things are on fire between you, even when it is uncomfortable. If you find happiness in a calm relationship, even without big highs and lows. Desire If you need your heart to race to feel that love is really there. If you can love deeply without it showing every day. Conflict If arguments followed by making up are part of what you love. If you prefer a calm life together to an intense but chaotic relationship. Trust If you need to feel safe to commit fully to a relationship. If you feel at ease with uncertainty, even after a long time together. Commitments If you feel smothered when someone talks to you about moving in together or getting married. If the idea of growing old alongside the same person deeply appeals to you. Anxiety If the idea that everything between you could stop ties your stomach in knots. If you build something solid without needing daily thrills. Autonomy If you feel freer in a relationship without an official commitment. If you are looking for a safe harbor, someone to come home to in the evening. Speaking up If you find it hard to say "I love you" out loud. If you easily tell your partner what you feel. Tenderness If you hold back a tender gesture or word when you wanted to offer it. If everyday tenderness is something you love and try to offer. How others see you If overly demonstrative displays of affection in public make you uncomfortable. If you receive a compliment or a hug from your partner with pleasure. Time If, when the pace of your relationship slows down, you see it as a bad sign. If a calm, steady pace, week after week, satisfies you. Loneliness If you struggle with the quieter stretches of your relationship, when less is happening. If you enjoy a shared silence on the couch, without needing more. Separation If, when things calm down between you, you stir something up to get things going again. If you need an evening to yourself to breathe, without it meaning you are leaving. Readiness to change If what you have just described matters in how you function day to day. If you want to get better at working with this way of functioning.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Your reading of your way of loving- The way you explain your way of experiencing love, before the test tells you anything. This section does not measure any difficulty and does not produce a level: it records your initial reading.
- ●Emotional intensity- The level of emotional charge you need in order to commit. The report treats this axis as a preference in how you function, not as a measure of the quality of love.
- ●Search for stability- The place security holds in the way you love: what a lasting framework gives you, and what uncertainty costs you. This axis is read alongside the previous one, not in opposition to it.
- ●Love expression- How affection flows for you, in both directions. The report looks as much at what you manage to give as at what you can receive without awkwardness.
- ●Relationship rhythm- The pace that suits you in a relationship, and what you do with calm periods. This dimension is about how you read these lulls: a breathing space, or a sign to interpret.
- ●Readiness to Change- Your starting point, kept apart from the other axes: the effect of your love style on your life and the wish for your situation to change are read separately.
Reference frameworks and authors
- A triangular theory of love — Sternberg 1986 (Sternberg, R. J., 1986)
based on — the love triangle (passion, intimacy, commitment) as conceptual framework for love style components
Why take this test?
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This test looks at your love style: tenderness and duration, or intensity and combustion. It examines several aspects: how much room emotional intensity takes up, the need for stability and predictability, the way love is expressed, and the rhythm that suits you. The report describes each of these aspects.
The questionnaire explores 5 areas: Your reading of your way of loving, Emotional intensity, Search for stability, Love expression, Relationship rhythm. Your answers support reflection, not a diagnosis. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
Dimensions explored
These are the aspects explored by this questionnaire. Your answers help put them into perspective.
Your reading of your way of loving
The way you explain your way of experiencing love, before the test tells you anything. This section does not measure any difficulty and does not produce a level: it records your initial reading.
Emotional intensity
The level of emotional charge you need in order to commit. The report treats this axis as a preference in how you function, not as a measure of the quality of love.
Search for stability
The place security holds in the way you love: what a lasting framework gives you, and what uncertainty costs you. This axis is read alongside the previous one, not in opposition to it.
Love expression
How affection flows for you, in both directions. The report looks as much at what you manage to give as at what you can receive without awkwardness.
Relationship rhythm
The pace that suits you in a relationship, and what you do with calm periods. This dimension is about how you read these lulls: a breathing space, or a sign to interpret.
Readiness to Change
Your starting point, kept apart from the other axes: the effect of your love style on your life and the wish for your situation to change are read separately.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 63 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this test measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Your reading of your way of loving, Emotional intensity, Search for stability, Love expression, Relationship rhythm. The report distinguishes the areas explored and their limits of interpretation. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
How long does this test take?
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The test contains 63 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This questionnaire draws on 5 dimensions from recognized psychological frameworks (Your reading of your way of loving, Emotional intensity, Search for stability…). It's a self-assessment tool for reflection, not a clinical diagnostic instrument: it has not undergone formal psychometric validation (sample, reliability coefficient) and does not replace a professional assessment.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your report includes an analysis by dimension, explanations and personalised points for reflection and a separate readiness-to-change module. Scores are interpreted according to the purpose and limitations of this questionnaire.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is this test for?
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Read this test’s introduction and dimensions to check whether they match your situation. Answer from the perspective specified in the instructions.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake this test as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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The report organises your answers and offers points for reflection. You can discuss it with a professional; it does not replace their assessment or prescribe treatment.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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