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Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test
64 questions·10 min·5 dimensions·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
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This test looks at what is there right now in the relationship: the intensity of what is felt, the way you picture yourself alongside this person, the presence or the absence of desire, and what routine has covered over. The report describes each of these aspects.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 64 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book The Practical CBT Guide, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test — a 64-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at what is there right now in the relationship: the intensity of feelings, projection into the future, present desire, and routine. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): your score on each of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test covers the future, plans, affection, withdrawal, attachment, desire, arousal, longing, pleasure, dialogue, the relationship, time, curiosity, hope and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example The future If you have trouble picturing a future with your partner. If you can still see yourself with your partner in five years. Plans If the future of your relationship inspires more worry in you than enthusiasm. If you have shared plans that excite you. Affection If what you feel for your partner feels more like affection or friendship than love. If your partner's gestures of affection still touch you. Withdrawal If you often feel indifferent or emotionally distant toward your partner. If you still feel emotionally close to your partner. Attachment If sometimes you feel as though your feelings for your partner have disappeared without your knowing why. If you would find it hard to imagine your life without your partner. Desire If you no longer truly feel desire for your partner, either physically or emotionally. If your partner still attracts you. Arousal If you no longer really feel the need for physical contact with your partner. If you still feel the urge to be physically close to your partner. Longing If you have a hard time remembering what you felt at the beginning of your relationship. If the idea of not seeing your partner for several days makes you miss them. Pleasure If your relationship lacks lightness, playfulness, or spontaneity. If you can still make each other laugh or surprise each other. Dialogue If your conversations are often limited to logistics or day-to-day matters. If you still want to talk to them, listen to them, learn what they are thinking. The relationship If you feel as though you have become housemates rather than a couple. If you still have a closeness that goes beyond simply living together. Time If you no longer have moments that truly belong to you, outside of daily logistics. If you still have evenings or moments that remind you why you are together. Curiosity If routine has largely replaced what once made your relationship singular. If you still positively surprise each other from time to time. Hope If the routine in your relationship weighs on you to the point that you have trouble seeing what still connects you. If beneath the routine, there is still something alive between you. Readiness to change If what you feel for your partner right now has a real impact on your life. If you believe you are capable of growing in this area.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Intensity of feelings- Do you still feel love or deep attachment for your partner? What you experience when you think of them, when you are together or apart.
- ●Projection into the future- Can you imagine a future with your partner? Shared projection — plans, desires, a vision of the life ahead — is a central indicator of the romantic bond.
- ●Present desire- Is desire — physical, emotional, the simple wish to be with the other person — still present? Not only in quantity but in quality: do you still find them attractive?
- ●Routine and spark- Has routine replaced what once made your relationship singular? Habit can coexist with love — but it can also mask it. This dimension explores what daily life has covered over or preserved.
- ●Readiness to Change- Measures your current readiness to acknowledge what you are experiencing and to allow your situation to evolve.
Reference frameworks and authors
- Triangular theory of love (Sternberg, 1986)
This test is based on Sternberg's triangular theory of love (1986), which distinguishes three components: intimacy, passion, and commitment. It is not a validated version of this instrument and adapts certain dimensions for a general, non-clinical audience.
This test is a personal exploration tool for romantic feelings, not a clinically validated psychometric instrument. It does not tell you whether you are or are not still in love — that answer belongs to you. The scores reflect your subjective perceptions at the moment you respond.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Intensity of feelings, Projection into the future, Present desire, Routine and spark, Readiness to Change. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 10 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Intensity of feelings, Projection into the future, Present desire, Routine and spark, Readiness to Change. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Intensity of feelings, Projection into the future, Present desire...) using validated assessment scales.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Are We Still in Love With Each Other? — Test as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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