Do We Share the Same Life Goals? — Couple Quiz

This interactive test covers the couple, rules, money, work, autonomy, the future, plans, listening, parenthood, support, conflict, dialogue, commitments and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example The couple If you do not draw the line in the same place between work and home. If your expectations of the relationship, yours and your partner's, are similar. Rules If, faced with a difficult choice, such as returning something you found or keeping it, your answers differ. If, when it comes to lying to a friend to help them out, you take the same position. Money If, between saving and spending, your ways of handling money clash in daily life. If your way of living, schedules, outings, money, seems compatible to you. Work If your training and their new job compete with your plans as a couple. If, for you both, it matters that each of you can pursue what you enjoy. Autonomy If your respective dreams, their boat and your house, struggle to fit into one shared plan. If your needs for freedom, like an evening on your own or a trip, seem compatible to you. The future If your ambitions are very unequal, and the gap weighs on your life together. If you can easily see the two of you in the years ahead, with a shared home and daily life. Plans If your ambitions, for their career and for yours, clash with each other. If you are able to make plans together for the distant future. Listening If the subject of children keeps coming up between you as a source of tension rather than agreement. If, when you talk about your home life, your partner hears you out to the end. Parenthood If family and children remain a source of tension between you. If, on having children, not having them, or thinking it over, you understand each other. Support If their parents, your brothers and sisters, are a point of disagreement between you. If, faced with a hard decision, such as a parent falling ill, you would deal with it together. Conflict If talking about a move quickly turns into an argument between you. If your discussions about housing take place respectfully, in calm voices. Dialogue If the subject of where to live creates friction between you. If you talk openly, between yourselves, about what you want as a family. Commitments If, between you, the wish to buy and stay clashes with the wish to be able to leave. If you could choose a town together to settle in for the long term. Readiness to change If what you have just described weighs on your life as a couple. If you want to change the way you function day to day.