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What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz
64 questions·10 min·5 dimensions·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
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This test looks at your love style. The report describes how much room self-giving and care for the other take up, how much reciprocity matters to you, the need to keep a space and projects of your own, and how easily affection is expressed.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 64 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book The Practical CBT Guide, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz — a 64-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at your love style: self-giving and care, the place of reciprocity, the need for a space of your own, and how affection is expressed. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): your score on each of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test covers support, empathy, boundaries, recognition, reassurance, anxiety, hypervigilance, independence, identity, the relationship, affection, speaking your mind and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example Support If helping your partner makes you happy, even when it takes effort. If you anticipate your partner's needs without waiting for them to express them. Empathy If you worry about your partner as soon as they go through a difficult time. If, when your partner is suffering, you feel the need to help them no matter what. Boundaries If you are willing to set aside your own desires for your partner's. If you prefer that each person takes care of their own needs in the relationship. Recognition If you need the feelings to be balanced in your relationship to feel well. If you can give without needing to know what the other person feels. Reassurance If you need to hear or see that your partner loves you to feel secure. If you do not need regular confirmation to feel loved. Anxiety If you become anxious when you do not know whether your partner feels the same way you do. If you can live serenely without knowing exactly what your partner feels for you. Hypervigilance If you watch your partner's behavior looking for signs of their love. If you pay attention to the signals your partner sends to know if they love you. Independence If the idea of spending time alone or with your friends makes you uncomfortable when you are in a relationship. If, even in a relationship, you need spaces that are uniquely yours. Identity If your social life merges with your partner's. If you make sure not to lose your own bearings when you are in a relationship. The relationship If you prefer sharing everything with your partner rather than having separate activities. If you consider autonomy to strengthen the couple rather than weaken it. Affection If affectionate gestures, hugs, kisses and sweet words, come naturally to you. If you express your affection regularly, without waiting for a special occasion. Speaking your mind If you keep your feelings to yourself rather than expressing them openly. If you find it easy to tell your partner what you appreciate about them. Readiness to change If what you have discovered about your way of loving affects you and gives you something to reflect on. If you are ready to take concrete steps to better understand or evolve your way of loving.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Self-giving- Measures how much your love is expressed through giving, devotion, and caring for the other person.
- ●Need for Reciprocity- Measures the importance you place on knowing your love is shared and recognized.
- ●Autonomy in the Relationship- Measures your need to preserve personal space, friendships, and projects that belong to you.
- ●Expression of Affection- Measures how easily you express your love freely through words, gestures, and attentiveness.
- ●Readiness to Explore- Measures your current readiness to explore and evolve your way of loving.
Reference frameworks and authors
- Triangle of Love (Sternberg, 1986)
This test is based on Sternberg's triangle of love (1986), which distinguishes three components: intimacy, passion, and commitment. It is not a validated version of this instrument and adapts certain dimensions for a broad, non-clinical audience.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Self-giving, Need for Reciprocity, Autonomy in the Relationship, Expression of Affection, Readiness to Explore. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 10 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Self-giving, Need for Reciprocity, Autonomy in the Relationship, Expression of Affection, Readiness to Explore. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Self-giving, Need for Reciprocity, Autonomy in the Relationship...) using validated assessment scales.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the What Is My Love Style? — Relationship Quiz as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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