Do I Have Sex Appeal? — Seduction Self-Test

This interactive test covers confidence, the body, appearance, nudity, comparison, attention, withdrawal, avoidance, anxiety, rumination, rejection, how others look at you, judgment, recognition and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example Confidence If your confidence in your body changes from one morning to the next, depending on the room you walk into. If you can feel desirable on an evening out without your outfit or your body being perfect. The body If, in a bar, face to face with someone you're attracted to, your body suddenly feels awkward. If your body is for dancing, seducing and enjoying pleasure, not just for being judged. Appearance If you don't feel desirable on days when your body doesn't look the way you'd like it to. If you take care of your body (exercise, sleep, showers, clothes) in a way that does you good. Nudity If, when you undress in front of someone, your confidence depends on what you think of your body at that moment. If you feel at ease in your body, with or without clothes. Comparison If you compare your body to the ones you see in the locker room or on screen, and your confidence drops. If, in your eyes, your figure and your face are only part of what makes you desirable. Attention If your hands or your voice give you away at a party and reveal the unease you were hiding. If you can hold someone's gaze for a long moment without feeling exposed. Withdrawal If, facing someone you're attracted to, your body closes off even though you want to make a move. If, at a party, you take up space, shoulders back and feet firmly planted, facing the person you're attracted to. Avoidance If you find it hard to make the first move and wait for a message or a gesture from the person you are attracted to. If you're bold enough to send the first message to someone you're attracted to. Anxiety If the fear of being turned down stops you in your tracks just as you're about to approach someone. If, over a first drink, you can laugh and be playful, keeping things light. Rumination If, before an evening out where you might attract someone, you prepare your lines and rehearse them in your head. If you can spend a whole evening without scanning the room for who finds you attractive. Rejection If being turned down, or a message left on read, keeps denting your confidence long after it happened. If you can accept that not everyone at a party will be attracted to you without it shaking your confidence. How others look at you If, when people stop looking at you over a long stretch, your confidence in your power of attraction goes down. If your sense of being desirable holds up without the looks you get on the street. Judgment If a remark about your looks that you overheard in a locker room stays on your mind long afterward. If you can let a hurtful remark about your appearance pass without letting it define you. Recognition If a message or a look telling you that you are attractive lifts your confidence well beyond that moment. If you can find yourself desirable one morning without anyone having to confirm it. Readiness to change If what you have just described weighs on your love life. If you want to change the way you function day to day.