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Are we still a couple or just roommates?
64 questions·10 min·5 dimensions·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
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This test looks at what remains alive in the relationship, beyond the organization of daily life. The report separates what is still alive from what has drifted away: the tenderness and the desire still there, what is being built together or no longer at all, everyday complicity, and the distance that no event explains.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 64 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book The Practical CBT Guide, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Are we still a couple or just roommates? — a 64-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at the dimensions still alive beyond the organization of daily life: tenderness, shared projects, complicity and settled distance. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): your score on each of those dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test covers the relationship, affection, desire, sexuality, attachment, plans, the future, dialogue, listening, support, loneliness, withdrawal, pleasure and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example The relationship If you live side by side more than together. If you are more than two people sharing an address. Affection If the closeness has gone out between you. If there is still tenderness in the everyday gestures. Desire If intimacy has gone into standby, in your home. If the attraction is still there, somewhere. Sexuality If that side of things has slipped into second place for you both. If your sexual life suits you, or you do not miss its absence. Attachment If you wonder whether the other still really knows you. If the attachment is still there, on your side. Plans If you have stopped building anything together. If you have plans you want to see through together. The future If the future together has become blurred for you. If, when you think of five years from now, the other is in the picture. Dialogue If your exchanges come down to shopping, schedules and bills. If you can still say real things to each other. Listening If you have stopped talking about yourselves, your fears, your wishes. If they notice when something is wrong, without you having to say it. Support If you run on automatic, with no real connection. If you feel supported in what you are going through. Loneliness If you sometimes feel alone in the same room as them. If you feel close to them. Withdrawal If each of you lives in your own bubble, the two never meeting. If you sometimes really find each other, rather than merely coexist. Pleasure If the lightness has gone, without your knowing when. If you still laugh together. Readiness to change If you want to find something other than an arrangement again. If you believe you can rekindle this.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Residual intimacy- What remains of the intimate connection between you: tenderness, desire, spontaneous moments of closeness.
- ●Shared projects- What you are building (or not) together: life projects, shared desires, vision of a shared future.
- ●Complicity- What connects you in daily life: shared looks, humor, trust, feeling like a team.
- ●Settled distance- What has drifted apart: feeling like strangers under the same roof, hollow conversations, presence without connection.
- ●Readiness to Change- Measures your current readiness to acknowledge what you're experiencing and allow your situation to evolve.
Reference frameworks and authors
This test explores your perception of your relationship as it is today. It doesn't say whether your relationship can be saved — it puts words on what you feel, so you can decide what comes next with more clarity.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Are we still a couple or just roommates? specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Residual intimacy, Shared projects, Complicity, Settled distance, Readiness to Change. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 10 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Are we still a couple or just roommates? sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Are we still a couple or just roommates? measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Residual intimacy, Shared projects, Complicity, Settled distance, Readiness to Change. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Are we still a couple or just roommates? take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Residual intimacy, Shared projects, Complicity...) using validated assessment scales.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Are we still a couple or just roommates? report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Are we still a couple or just roommates? for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Are we still a couple or just roommates? as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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