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📄 Sample report — illustrative profile (fictional persona). Your real report is assessed from YOUR answers after the test.

Hello Emma,

Overall result

Moderate fear of abandonment

Fear of abandonment is present but managed. Certain specific situations can reawaken it.

Detailed analysis

Separation AnxietyModerate

Certain separations make you more anxious than usual. Distance can generate discomfort.

Your answers indicate present but contained manifestations on separation anxiety. The moderate level typically reflects activation at times, often linked to identifiable triggers (stressful situations, relational conflicts, periods of fatigue or isolation). At this stage, the dimension is not dominant in your functioning, but it deserves observation: the main risk of the moderate level is that it worsens by accumulation. In practical terms, watching the frequency rather than the intensity of an isolated episode gives a truer picture of the trend: it is repetition, more than occasional strength, that tips the moderate toward the marked. Keeping a regular check-in (brief journal, conversation with a trusted person) can help anticipate. Identifying two or three recurring triggers and preparing a simple response in advance — a break, a call, a soothing activity — reduces the likelihood of the dimension settling in. If other dimensions evolve in parallel, this one can become more salient through cumulative effect; and if these manifestations gain ground despite your efforts, talking about it early with a professional is in no way disproportionate — it is often at this stage that support is most effective and shortest.

Recommendations

  • Develop enriching personal activities during absences
  • Practice mindfulness to manage anxiety surges
Need for ReassuranceHigh

Your need for reassurance is significant and can become burdensome for your partner.

Your answers describe a marked trait on need for reassurance. At this level, the dimension can self-perpetuate through self-reinforcing mechanisms (avoidance, attentional focus, or rumination), whose exact form depends on the dimension concerned. This trait typically manifests in several everyday contexts, not just in exceptional situations. Understanding the self-reinforcing mechanism is often the key: for instance, avoiding a situation brings short-term relief but confirms to the brain that it was dangerous, which strengthens avoidance the next time. Spotting this kind of loop in your own daily life — without judging yourself — is already a lever for change, because you can only act on what you have first identified. It can interact with other elevated dimensions of the profile — for instance by worsening the feeling of overload or limiting available resources to cope with it. It can be useful to talk about it with a professional (psychologist, doctor) to explore in more detail what is at play and identify levers for action; structured approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy work precisely on these chains, through small concrete and realistic steps rather than willpower alone.

Recommendations

  • Work on your inner security with a professional
  • Diversify your sources of validation (friends, activities, accomplishments)
Hypersensitivity to RejectionModerate

Certain situations of rejection or criticism affect you more than usual, especially from those close to you.

On hypersensitivity to rejection, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).

Recommendations

  • Practice cognitive de-dramatization when facing perceived rejection
  • Learn to question your automatic interpretations
Avoidance StrategiesHigh

Your avoidance strategies are well established and deprive you of deep, satisfying relationships.

On avoidance strategies, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).

Recommendations

  • Therapeutic support would help you overcome these defensive strategies
  • Work on distinguishing between healthy protection and harmful avoidance

Profile synthesis

Your profile shows moderate manifestations. Some dimensions deserve attention without being alarming: they describe real but contained difficulties that do not yet occupy the center of your functioning. The moderate level is precisely the one where observation is most useful, because it can evolve in either direction depending on what is happening in your life. Identifying the contexts and moments where these dimensions intensify — fatigue, conflict, overload, isolation — gives you concrete levers to act early. Talking about it with a trusted person or a professional, even without urgency, can help clarify what is at play and avoid a worsening through accumulation.

How your dimensions interact

Several dimensions show simultaneously high scores (Need for Reassurance, Avoidance Strategies). These dimensions do not operate in isolation: they can reinforce one another, each sustaining the others in a loop that makes the overall picture heavier than the sum of its parts. The good news about this mechanism is that it also works in reverse: targeted work on one of them, often the most accessible or the most pervasive, can have positive cascading effects on the others. It is precisely this kind of link that a professional can help untangle, to choose where to start rather than facing everything at once.

Your action plan

Right now

  • Need for Reassurance — Work on your inner security with a professional
  • Need for Reassurance — Diversify your sources of validation (friends, activities, accomplishments)
  • Avoidance Strategies — Therapeutic support would help you overcome these defensive strategies
  • Avoidance Strategies — Work on distinguishing between healthy protection and harmful avoidance

In the coming weeks

  • Separation Anxiety — Develop enriching personal activities during absences
  • Hypersensitivity to Rejection — Practice cognitive de-dramatization when facing perceived rejection

In the long run

  • Retake this test in 3 to 6 months to measure your evolution. Significant changes on elevated dimensions are often visible at this time scale.
  • If you start therapeutic work, identify together 1 or 2 priority dimensions rather than addressing everything at once — targeted work is more effective than global work.
  • Build a lasting support network: health professional (psychologist, psychiatrist, primary care doctor), close ones, possibly support groups. Solidity comes from number and complementarity.
  • Take care of physiological foundations (sleep, nutrition, physical activity): they do not cure but they strongly condition psychological availability for therapeutic work.
Your answers in detail

1. I feel calm when my partner is away, even for a long time.

Answer : Often

You answered "Often". Can you tell me more about when this comes up for you?

It mainly shows up in situations that matter to me, when I feel under pressure or emotionally involved.

2. I can consider a temporary separation calmly.

Answer : Often

And how long have you noticed this?

It has been more present over the past few months, though I recognise it from before too.

3. I find it hard to fall asleep when my partner is not by my side.

Answer : Rarely

4. I am comfortable with my time apart from my partner, without thinking about it constantly.

Answer : Often

5. I imagine worst-case scenarios when I have not heard from my partner.

Answer : Rarely

6. I feel lost and disoriented after a breakup, even when the relationship was not satisfying.

Answer : Rarely

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