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Is My Child Resilient? — Parenting Assessment
63 questions·10 min·5 dimensions and a separate readiness-to-change module·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
Reviewed by Gildas Garrec, CBT practitioner
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This test looks, one by one, at what supports resilience in your child: the way they get through a hard time, the support they feel around them (which is not the same as the support they actually receive), their flexibility in seeing things from another angle, and their perseverance when something doesn't come easily. Based on your observations, the report shows where each of these supports stands.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 63 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book Adolescence in Crisis, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
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Is My Child Resilient? — Parenting Assessment — a 63-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at what supports resilience in your child: how they face hardship, the support they feel, their flexibility and their perseverance. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): an interpretation of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This interactive test covers how your child gets through hardship, the support they perceive, their mental flexibility, their perseverance, and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example Facing hardship “After a hard knock, my child soon gets back into their usual rhythm without getting stuck.” “Faced with an everyday setback, my child reacts as if it were a disaster.” Perceived support “When things aren't going well, my child comes to me to talk about it.” “My child keeps their worries to themselves rather than talking to someone about them.” Mental flexibility “In an argument, my child suggests another way of looking at the same disagreement.” “My child stubbornly sticks to the same method even when it isn't working.” Problem-solving and perseverance “Faced with a problem, my child looks for a solution instead of waiting for it to pass.” “As soon as an exercise gets tricky, my child stops trying right away.” Readiness to change “What I've just described weighs on my life as a parent.” “I want to take action to better support my child in this area.”
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Your view of your child's resilience- How you explain the way your child gets through hard times, before the test tells you anything. This section does not measure any difficulty or produce a level: it simply records your initial view.
- ●Facing hardship- How your child lives through and gets through difficult moments.
- ●Perceived support- How your child perceives and draws on the support of those around them.
- ●Mental flexibility- Your child's ability to adapt, find new perspectives and avoid getting stuck.
- ●Problem-solving and perseverance- Your child's ability to keep moving forward and find solutions in the face of obstacles.
- ●Your readiness to support- Your openness to supporting your child's resilience.
Reference frameworks and authors
- Cyrulnik B. — Un merveilleux malheur (Cyrulnik B., 1999)
- Masten A.S. — Ordinary magic: Resilience processes in development (Masten A.S., 2001)
Resilience is a dynamic resource, not a fixed personality trait. A child who seems to have little resilience today can develop this capacity with the support of a caring adult, time, and sometimes professional help. This test describes a current state — not a destiny.
Why take this test?
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This test looks, one by one, at what supports resilience in your child: the way they get through a hard time, the support they feel around them (which is not the same as the support they actually receive), their flexibility in seeing things from another angle, and their perseverance when something doesn't come easily. Based on your observations, the report shows where each of these supports stands.
The questionnaire explores 5 areas: Your view of your child's resilience, Facing hardship, Perceived support, Mental flexibility, Problem-solving and perseverance. Your answers support reflection, not a diagnosis. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
Dimensions explored
These are the aspects explored by this questionnaire. Your answers help put them into perspective.
Your view of your child's resilience
How you explain the way your child gets through hard times, before the test tells you anything. This section does not measure any difficulty or produce a level: it simply records your initial view.
Facing hardship
How your child lives through and gets through difficult moments.
Perceived support
How your child perceives and draws on the support of those around them.
Mental flexibility
Your child's ability to adapt, find new perspectives and avoid getting stuck.
Problem-solving and perseverance
Your child's ability to keep moving forward and find solutions in the face of obstacles.
Your readiness to support
Your openness to supporting your child's resilience.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 63 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does this test measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Your view of your child's resilience, Facing hardship, Perceived support, Mental flexibility, Problem-solving and perseverance. The report distinguishes the areas explored and their limits of interpretation. A separate module explores readiness to change; it is not another trait of the model presented.
How long does this test take?
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The test contains 63 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This questionnaire draws on 5 dimensions from recognized psychological frameworks (Your view of your child's resilience, Facing hardship, Perceived support…). It's a self-assessment tool for reflection, not a clinical diagnostic instrument: it has not undergone formal psychometric validation (sample, reliability coefficient) and does not replace a professional assessment.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your report includes an analysis by dimension, explanations and personalised points for reflection and a separate readiness-to-change module. Scores are interpreted according to the purpose and limitations of this questionnaire.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is this test for?
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Check the introduction for who should answer: an adult, child or teenager. Do not answer on someone else’s behalf if the questionnaire asks for their own perspective.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake this test as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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The report organises your answers and offers points for reflection. You can discuss it with a professional; it does not replace their assessment or prescribe treatment.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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