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📄 Sample report — illustrative profile (fictional persona). Your real report is assessed from YOUR answers after the test.

Hello Emma,

Overall result

Moderate emotional deprivation

You show moderate emotional deprivation. Some emotional needs were not sufficiently met during childhood, leaving partial deficits.

Your profile at a glance

Lack of Affe...Lack of Vali...Lack of Secu...Coping Strat...

Detailed analysis

Lack of AffectionModerate

You experienced a partial lack of affection. Some aspects of physical or verbal tenderness were insufficient in your family.

Your answers indicate present but contained manifestations on lack of affection. The moderate level typically reflects activation at times, often linked to identifiable triggers (stressful situations, relational conflicts, periods of fatigue or isolation). At this stage, the dimension is not dominant in your functioning, but it deserves observation: the main risk of the moderate level is that it worsens by accumulation. In practical terms, watching the frequency rather than the intensity of an isolated episode gives a truer picture of the trend: it is repetition, more than occasional strength, that tips the moderate toward the marked. Keeping a regular check-in (brief journal, conversation with a trusted person) can help anticipate. Identifying two or three recurring triggers and preparing a simple response in advance — a break, a call, a soothing activity — reduces the likelihood of the dimension settling in. If other dimensions evolve in parallel, this one can become more salient through cumulative effect; and if these manifestations gain ground despite your efforts, talking about it early with a professional is in no way disproportionate — it is often at this stage that support is most effective and shortest.

Recommendations

  • Identify which form of affection you lacked most
  • Learn to express and receive tenderness in daily life
  • Practice self-compassion and kindness toward yourself
Lack of ValidationHigh

The lack of validation was significant. The absence of recognition has weakened your self-esteem and fueled chronic doubt about your worth.

Your answers describe a marked trait on lack of validation. At this level, the dimension can self-perpetuate through self-reinforcing mechanisms (avoidance, attentional focus, or rumination), whose exact form depends on the dimension concerned. This trait typically manifests in several everyday contexts, not just in exceptional situations. Understanding the self-reinforcing mechanism is often the key: for instance, avoiding a situation brings short-term relief but confirms to the brain that it was dangerous, which strengthens avoidance the next time. Spotting this kind of loop in your own daily life — without judging yourself — is already a lever for change, because you can only act on what you have first identified. It can interact with other elevated dimensions of the profile — for instance by worsening the feeling of overload or limiting available resources to cope with it. It can be useful to talk about it with a professional (psychologist, doctor) to explore in more detail what is at play and identify levers for action; structured approaches such as cognitive behavioral therapy work precisely on these chains, through small concrete and realistic steps rather than willpower alone.

Recommendations

  • Consider therapeutic work on self-esteem
  • Practice daily self-affirmation exercises
  • Keep a journal of your successes and qualities
  • Surround yourself with people who authentically value you
Lack of SecurityModerate

You experienced a partial lack of security. Some aspects of family stability were lacking, generating residual insecurity.

On lack of security, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).

Recommendations

  • Identify the situations that trigger your insecurity
  • Build secure routines and rituals
  • Practice grounding techniques and emotional regulation
Coping StrategiesHigh

Your coping strategies are significant. Perfectionism, dependency, avoidance, or overcompensation are active mechanisms preventing you from living fully.

On coping strategies, this level calls for the same reading as detailed above for another dimension of the same intensity (see the analysis above).

Recommendations

  • Consider therapeutic work on defense mechanisms
  • Learn to identify the real need behind the compensatory behavior
  • Practice direct responses to your emotional needs
  • Be patient; changing these patterns takes time

Profile synthesis

Your profile shows moderate manifestations. Some dimensions deserve attention without being alarming: they describe real but contained difficulties that do not yet occupy the center of your functioning. The moderate level is precisely the one where observation is most useful, because it can evolve in either direction depending on what is happening in your life. Identifying the contexts and moments where these dimensions intensify — fatigue, conflict, overload, isolation — gives you concrete levers to act early. Talking about it with a trusted person or a professional, even without urgency, can help clarify what is at play and avoid a worsening through accumulation.

How your dimensions interact

Several dimensions show simultaneously high scores (Lack of Validation, Coping Strategies). These dimensions do not operate in isolation: they can reinforce one another, each sustaining the others in a loop that makes the overall picture heavier than the sum of its parts. The good news about this mechanism is that it also works in reverse: targeted work on one of them, often the most accessible or the most pervasive, can have positive cascading effects on the others. It is precisely this kind of link that a professional can help untangle, to choose where to start rather than facing everything at once.

Your action plan

Right now

  • Lack of Validation — Consider therapeutic work on self-esteem
  • Lack of Validation — Practice daily self-affirmation exercises
  • Coping Strategies — Consider therapeutic work on defense mechanisms
  • Coping Strategies — Learn to identify the real need behind the compensatory behavior

In the coming weeks

  • Lack of Affection — Identify which form of affection you lacked most
  • Lack of Security — Identify the situations that trigger your insecurity

In the long run

  • Retake this test in 3 to 6 months to measure your evolution. Significant changes on elevated dimensions are often visible at this time scale.
  • If you start therapeutic work, identify together 1 or 2 priority dimensions rather than addressing everything at once — targeted work is more effective than global work.
  • Build a lasting support network: health professional (psychologist, psychiatrist, primary care doctor), close ones, possibly support groups. Solidity comes from number and complementarity.
  • Take care of physiological foundations (sleep, nutrition, physical activity): they do not cure but they strongly condition psychological availability for therapeutic work.

Resources & exercise

7-day observation journal

Each day, spot one situation where “Lack of Validation” showed up. Note the automatic thought, the emotion (0–100) and what you did. Then write one more balanced, alternative reading. After 7 days, re-read your notes: the recurring patterns become visible — the first step to change them.

Support resources

If you are struggling, you are not alone. United States: call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7). Elsewhere: find your local line at findahelpline.com. This report supports self-knowledge and does not replace a consultation with a psychologist or doctor.

Your answers in detail

1. As a child, I rarely received hugs, caresses, or gestures of tenderness.

Answer : Somewhat disagree

You answered "Somewhat disagree". Can you tell me more about when this comes up for you?

It mainly shows up in situations that matter to me, when I feel under pressure or emotionally involved.

2. My parents rarely or never told me they loved me.

Answer : Somewhat disagree

And how long have you noticed this?

It has been more present over the past few months, though I recognise it from before too.

3. The atmosphere at home was cold and expressions of affection were rare.

Answer : Somewhat disagree

4. I don't remember being rocked, comforted, or held when I was sad.

Answer : Somewhat disagree

5. Today, I have difficulty receiving or giving physical affection.

Answer : Somewhat disagree

6. I feel an inner emptiness that I try to fill through relationships.

Answer : Somewhat disagree

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