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Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future?
64 questions·10 min·5 dimensions·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
Good morning,
This test is taken as a pair: each of you fills in the questionnaire alone, with no access to what your partner answers. Four aspects are gathered: how a disagreement ends, what the couple does with hard knocks, how deep the commitment feels, and the satisfaction actually experienced day to day. The report compares the two profiles and shows where one of you takes as settled what the other does not experience the same way.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 64 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book Saving Your Relationship, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? — a 64-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test is taken as a pair: each of you fills in the questionnaire alone. The report compares the two profiles and shows where they diverge. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): your score on each of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test is taken as a pair, each of you filling in the questionnaire alone. How long a couple lasts is poorly predicted by declarations and well predicted by precise mechanisms, the ones Gottman's research documented. Those are what the questionnaire asks about: how a disagreement starts and settles, what the couple does with the trials that cross it, how firmly each of you is committed, and the satisfaction genuinely felt. Openness to change is added to these: five dimensions in all. The report then superimposes the two readings. Where they coincide, there is bedrock. Where they part — one believes himself supported, the other feels alone — sits the point that needs putting into words.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Conflict management- Based on Gottman's Four Horsemen (criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling) — measured from your own perspective.
- ●Relationship resilience- The couple's ability to weather hardships together and come out stronger rather than weaker.
- ●Mutual commitment- Depth and reciprocity of each partner's commitment to the relationship over the long term.
- ●Relationship satisfaction- Level of satisfaction and fulfillment felt day-to-day in the relationship.
- ●Readiness to Change- Measures your current readiness to evolve how you function in the relationship.
Reference frameworks and authors
- This test does not assess whether your relationship is 'good' or 'bad', but explores the indicators research associates with relationship durability — it draws on the theoretical framework of "Why Marriages Succeed or Fail" without claiming formal psychometric validation. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail (Gottman J.M., 1994)
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Conflict management, Relationship resilience, Mutual commitment, Relationship satisfaction, Readiness to Change. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 10 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Conflict management, Relationship resilience, Mutual commitment, Relationship satisfaction, Readiness to Change. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Conflict management, Relationship resilience, Mutual commitment...) using validated assessment scales.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Built to Last: Is Your Relationship Made for the Future? as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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