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Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment
64 questions·10 min·5 dimensions·up to 14 clinical frameworks·5 report sections
Good morning,
This test looks at what you yourself observe in this relationship. The report sets out four observations in order: the changes in habits, the new secrecy around devices and messages, the physical and emotional distancing, and the explanations that do not fit together.
What you receive — a report written from your answers: what stands out, what sustains it, and where to start. This week, this month, later on.
How it is built — each axis is analyzed on its own, then cross-read with the others, through clinical reading frameworks. Your detailed answers are attached as an appendix. See an example report
The test runs over 64 questions and takes about 10 min, for a price of $3.60.
We'd also suggest reading the book The Practical CBT Guide, to take this reflection further. It's included in the price and downloadable.
If you have a question about your report, write to us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com: a psychotherapist will reply within 48 hours.
I'd also suggest analysing your conversation with ScanMyLove; it's a complementary tool that, from your exchanges as partners, sheds light on your relationship dynamics.
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Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment — a 64-question self-assessment, about 10 min. This test looks at what you yourself observe: changes in habits, new secrecy around devices, distancing, and explanations that do not fit together. Once finished, you receive a detailed PDF report ($3.60): your score on each of its 5 dimensions, a radar chart, up to 14 clinical reading frameworks and a personalized action plan. It is designed to help you know yourself better.
This test covers time, screens, secrecy, avoidance, lying, having your perception questioned, dialogue, withdrawal, affection, sexuality, the relationship, rumination and readiness to change. What the test asks, for example Time If this person's waking or bedtime hours have changed. If this person comes home at the usual hours, with any gap explained. Screens If the way the two of you handle your screens has changed, clearly and recently. If this person answers their messages in front of you, as always. Secrecy If certain conversations visibly wait for you to leave. If what was open between you is still open. Avoidance If a precise question gets an evasive answer. If this person answers calmly when you ask where they were. Lying If you have caught this person in a plain lie, at least once. If this person's account of an evening you attended matches what you saw. Having your perception questioned If what you hear sits badly with what you see. If this person's versions of the same event hold up over time. Dialogue If your ways of communicating have changed without you. If a simple question goes by without the tone rising. Withdrawal If this person is absent in mind while present in body. If this person is still interested in what you are living. Affection If the tender gestures of before have disappeared. If this person looks at you as they did before. Sexuality If your sexual life has stopped for no identifiable reason. If your intimate moments have changed in nature, recently. The relationship If this cooling appeared over an identifiable period. If the emotional bond between you has stayed as vivid. Rumination If you live with a doubt you have never been able to put down. If a doubt remains that nothing dispels. Readiness to change If you want the situation to become clear. If you would be ready to take a step to protect yourself.
About this test
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Dimensions assessed
- ●Behavioral Changes- Observable changes in routines, habits, social life, emotional availability — changes that appeared recently and have no clear explanation.
- ●Digital Secrecy- New protective behaviors around the phone, messages, accounts, digital activities — systematic confidentiality that has changed recently.
- ●Intimate Distancing- Physical and emotional withdrawal: reduction in tenderness, intimacy, interest in what you feel, involvement in your shared life.
- ●Consistency of Accounts- Discrepancies, vagueness, or inconsistencies in the accounts you receive: different versions, evasion, details that don't add up.
- ●Readiness to Face the Situation- Measures your current readiness to acknowledge the impact of what you are going through and to take concrete steps to protect yourself and move forward.
Reference frameworks and authors
This test is a structured observation tool. It explores behavioral, digital, intimate, and narrative signals that may accompany infidelity. It is not a validated psychometric instrument and does not constitute proof of any kind. No test can establish the reality of infidelity. All questions are formulated from the respondent's own experience: what they observe, what they feel. The test never asserts what the partner is doing. High scores indicate a convergence of observed signals — not a conclusion about the partner's behavior.
Why take this test?
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Personal development relies on deep self-knowledge: your values, emotional intelligence, resilience, and self-confidence. Assessing these dimensions gives you a clear roadmap for growth and achieving your life goals.
The Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment specifically evaluates 5 key dimensions: Behavioral Changes, Digital Secrecy, Intimate Distancing, Consistency of Accounts, Readiness to Face the Situation. With 64 carefully crafted questions, it provides a detailed and nuanced picture of your psychological profile in this area. The test takes approximately 10 min and can be completed at your own pace, from any device.
Whether you’re seeking personal development, considering therapy, or simply curious about yourself, this test gives you concrete and actionable results to move forward with confidence.
Daily-life situations this test explores
To help you picture what to expect before you start, here are the concrete contexts the Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment sheds light on. This is not the list of questions (you discover them when you start the test) — it is the life situations it assesses.
In your life choices
How you make important decisions: listening to your values or following others’ expectations, projecting far or staying in survival mode.
Facing failure or setback
Your ability to bounce back: inner narratives, resources you mobilize, time to recover, lessons you draw from it.
In social relationships
Ease in connecting, setting limits, receiving a compliment, refusing a request without guilt.
In self-knowledge
Clarity on your needs, emotions, strengths and shadow areas; ability to observe yourself without judgment.
How does it work?
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Take the test
Answer the 64 questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — just choose the option that best describes you. The test takes about 10 min.
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Proceed to payment
Once you finish the test, pay $3.60 securely to unlock your full report. No registration required.
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Download your detailed PDF report
For a comprehensive analysis, get your PDF report (5 dimensions analyzed, radar chart, personalized recommendations, action plan). Instant download after secure payment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does the Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment measure?
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This test evaluates 5 psychological dimensions: Behavioral Changes, Digital Secrecy, Intimate Distancing, Consistency of Accounts, Readiness to Face the Situation. Each dimension is scored individually, giving you a detailed view of your profile rather than a single overall number.
How long does the Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment take?
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The test contains 64 questions and takes approximately 10 min to complete. You can answer at your own pace — your progress is automatically saved in your browser.
How does this test work?
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The test is anonymous and requires no registration. After completing it, you immediately see a preview of your results. The detailed PDF report, with in-depth analysis, charts and personalized recommendations, is available for $3.60.
Is this test scientifically validated?
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This test is based on established models in clinical psychology and psychometrics. It evaluates 5 dimensions (Behavioral Changes, Digital Secrecy, Intimate Distancing...) using validated assessment scales.
What does the PDF report contain?
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Your Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment report includes: your overall score with detailed interpretation, individual analysis of each of the 5 dimensions, a radar chart visualizing your profile, personalized recommendations for improvement, practical exercises, and additional resources.
Is my data kept confidential?
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No account creation, no email required — no sign-up needed at all. Your answers are sent to our servers while you take the test. All data is automatically deleted after 30 days — see our Privacy page for full detail.
Who is the Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment for?
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This test is designed for any adult wishing to better understand their functioning in this area, whether out of curiosity, as part of a self-knowledge journey or to prepare a conversation with a professional.
Can I retake the test later?
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Yes, you can retake the Is My Partner Being Unfaithful? A Lucid Assessment as many times as you wish. Some people take it again after several months to observe how their profile evolves. Each new attempt generates its own report — previous answers are not reused.
What should I do with my results?
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Your report offers a clinical reading of your profile with concrete recommendations. You can use it as material for personal reflection, to open a conversation with someone close to you, or take it to a professional (psychologist, therapist, doctor) to enrich the consultation with a structured view of your dimensions.
Can people close to me also take it?
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Yes. Each person gets their own anonymous, unique report, based on THEIR answers. Comparing profiles within a family or couple can be useful — provided each person takes the test honestly and on their own, without influencing one another during the answers.
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